Let’s Talk about Eloping – by Kate

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Planning a wedding can be stressful, although it doesn’t have to be. If you set a budget which you stick to, keep it simple, stay grounded and be very organised planning as far in advance as you can, then the stress levels can remain at a minimum. However if you don’t like being the centre of attention, don’t want to spend a small fortune and save for months or even years on end and have the ‘traditional’ wedding, then perhaps eloping seems like a very appealing option.

elopement 1
Image source

The benefits of eloping is you can plan something really simple, elegant, crazy, cheesy, anything that suits your style, potentially without the massive costs, stress, family politics and debating over the guest list. You can go to a fabulous destination, somewhere truly beautiful that appeals to you and the best bit, you are already on honeymoon! You are more than likely to spend less, get less stressed and be far more relaxed if you elope, but you have to take into account if you chose to do this, you will not be surrounded by lots of friends and family, may not have the traditional first dance and cutting of the cake, so you must weigh up what is important to you. If you do elope, it might be nice to have a low key/low cost celebration back home so friends and family can celebrate with you and you can keep some of the traditions should you wish.

elopement 2
Image source

For me, from a Wedding Planners perspective, I love weddings, love planning them, love seeing them come together and get a buzz on the day from knowing I am doing everything in my power to give the couple the wedding of their dreams and that I have contributed to that, to such a special day. I spend around 50-70hours a week planning weddings, which is why for me personally elopement is a perfect option. I was afraid my own wedding would feel like work, or that because of what I do, that every guest would analyse every little detail and that I would have to work 80 hours a week to save and afford the wedding I wanted, so it is my decision to elope.

For me as a bride, I have always wanted to get married outside, somewhere beautiful next to water, to have a shorter 50’s style dress, to read my own vows, for it all to be about my love for my fiancé and for his love for me and to have an amazing honeymoon (after all we work so hard a break is well deserved)! We have decided we are eloping in Italy next year and just taking 2 friends as witnesses and then spending 2 weeks honeymooning and relaxing and then we are having a casual day time reception with our style of food, casual music and some fun and games for our most cherished friends and family. This means that we can afford the things that are most important to us, an amazing photographer, amazing videographer, stunning wedding location and fabulous honeymoon. That suits us, our family are happy with our decision and for me, it’s my dream wedding.

What you need to decide is, elopement, is it for you?

Love Kate x

elopement 3
Image source

To read our Destination Weddings feature visit the post here >> and get our top tips for planning a wedding abroad.

Thank you for this lovely blog post Kate, it is my own 10 year anniversary this weekend and I headed off to California for our wedding so this week’s topics are very relevant.

Happy planning Wedding Belles – sign up to follow our blog below and register your email address HERE so that you can be one of our wedding tribe and receive lots of updates and be the first to hear about offers and freebies.

Love from Marie x

The Wedding Expert  – www.isabellaweddings.co.uk

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s